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MySurrogateMom helps intended parents and surrogates connect directly across the US and Canada — without agency fees or long waitlists.
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Where Surrogates and Families Find Each Other
One platform for intended parents and surrogates. Both can join, browse, and connect for free.
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5,000+ members · Free to join · US & Canada · Direct matching · No agency fees
Create Your Free Profile in Minutes
Sign up, share your story, and tell us what you're looking for. No credit card, no application fee. Your profile is reviewed by our team before going live.
Browse and Connect Directly
Find surrogates and IPs. Browse profiles by location. When someone feels right, message them directly. No agency middleman. No waitlist. You decide the pace.
Match and Begin Your Journey
Connect, match, and start one of the most meaningful experiences of your life. Most members find their match in weeks. Yours could be next.
Meet the Community
You’re not alone in this. Meet some of the people already finding their way.
Real Stories from Surrogates and Intended Parents
Rated 4.7/5 by our community
based on ASurrogacy.com reviews
“I was nervous about reaching out to strangers about something this personal. The platform made it feel safe to take that first step.”
“This platform made finding our surrogate so much easier. We’re forever grateful for this community.”
“We matched in 6 weeks, now our daughter is 2”
“Being a surrogate has been the most rewarding experience of my life. This community supported me every step.”
A Community Built on Privacy and Respect
A space where surrogates and intended parents can explore and connect at their own pace, safely.
Resources & Stories
Learn how surrogacy works, what to expect, and how other members approached their journey.
Common Questions
MySurrogateMom is an independent surrogacy matching platform, not an agency. We connect surrogates and intended parents directly, without acting as intermediaries or charging agency fees. You control your journey and communicate directly with potential matches.
Joining is completely free. You can create a profile and find surrogates or intended parents at no cost.
Every profile is reviewed by our team before it goes live. We’re not a directory where anyone can post anything. We review profiles and members can be reported at any time if something feels off.
Compensation varies a lot depending on location, experience, and the agreement you reach with the intended parents. In the US, first-time surrogates typically see somewhere between $30,000–$50,000. Experienced surrogates often receive more. This platform doesn’t set or control compensation, that’s between you and the family you match with.
Create a free profile, tell your story, and start browsing. You can find surrogate mother or intended parents by location, experience, and other filters. When you find someone who feels right, you reach out directly — no agency middleman, no waiting list
Your contact details are never visible on your profile. All communication happens through the platform until you decide you’re comfortable sharing more. You control what you share and when.
Create a free intended parent profile, browse surrogate profiles by location and experience, and message candidates directly. On MySurrogateMom, intended parents can browse 2,000+ profiles across the US and Canada and often find a match in weeks. You will still need a reproductive lawyer for the legal agreement, but the matching itself is independent. Join now and find your surrogate mother in just one click.
Somewhere on this platform, your match is already waiting.
Join thousands of surrogates and intended parents building families together.
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